He asked me 2 weeks ago for a relationship, to be committed, exclusive, and only then, were we intimate for the first time last weekend. He needs to wait it out. Our relationship had a goal. Splitting up hurt like hell but neither of us tried to screw the other in any way. So yeah, Juli, I think you need to get very clear with your guy on where he stands with the whole divorce thing.
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View article. I have also discovered that women also lie about being divorced. Be honest with yourself. Even if both people have decided to go their own way, the separating is just as meaningful and should require as much care as the wedding. He understood.